GASTON, Ralph

On February 6, 2022, Ralph passed away peacefully at the age of 86. He will be deeply missed by his wife of 60 years, Ann (Neily), and his children, Billy and Paula. He was a cherished father-in-law to Lisa and Roland, and much loved by their children, Ryan and Christina (Alex).

Ralph was born on the Teck Hughes property on February 19, 1935. The Gastons didn’t have much, but they had each other. Although Ralph excelled academically, he had to leave school early to help provide for his Mother and siblings. He had many different careers including Canada Post, owning and operating the Edgewood Restaurant in Kenogami, and Carter & Gaston Insurance.

Predeceased by parents Lovey Adria Malloy and Fulton Gaston and siblings Doris Lawlor (late Ray), Wallace, Marjorie (late Bob), Robert (Rose), Clifford (Barbara), and Jean. Ralph will be missed by his surviving siblings, Gerald (Brenda), sisters Muriel (late Fred) and Linda (late Paul), and sister-in-law, Susan, along with many nieces and nephews across the country.

Ralph had a strong work ethic and was determined to enjoy what he had. He took great pride in maintaining the home he built on Athenia Boulevard. He could often be seen “puttering” outside on his showstopper of a lawn or washing and waxing the family cars. He spent many happy decades at the cottage on Lake Kenogami and took great joy in hosting the annual Gaston summer reunions and get-togethers with their many friends. Ralph also worked hard to maintain the old Neily/Lockwood Family property in Mill Village, Nova Scotia.

Ralph volunteered his time and energy to several different organizations, making many lifelong friends along the way. He was a Mason, a Presbyterian Elder at St. Andrew’s and Tomstown, and served as President of the Kiwanis Club.

He was a strong all-around athlete who also enjoyed watching sports (and yelling at the TV). Ralph loved to travel, thoroughly enjoying trips to Mexico, Europe, California, and Florida. An amazing driver, he logged over 30 round trips to Nova Scotia and countless minor hockey games, tournaments, and figure skating competitions. He enjoyed reading and possessed an encyclopedic knowledge of vintage automobiles. Ralph’s infectious laugh could be heard when watching his slapstick favorites such as the Pink Panther movies and Trailer Park Boys.

We are grateful to the many health care professionals who provided such excellent care to Ralph over many years. The family also wants to recognize the team from Closing the Gap. Their support helped both Ann and Ralph immensely, allowing him to stay in the home he loved so much.

Ralph wanted to protect his kids but also prepare them. As such, he started to warn them of his imminent demise starting in 1986.  It was one of his few failures. We will miss him every day.

Ralph did not want a formal service. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Teck Centennial Library (Adult Fiction) will be appreciated by his family.

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31 messages received

Ann & families

So sorry to hear of Ralph’s passing. Him and Ann were great friends in his latter years. We have a lot of good memories of times spent together.

Lesia & John Little, February 10, 2022

Ann and family

Ann I’m so sorry to read about Ralph’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. He will be missed.

Samantha Pierce , February 10, 2022

Ann and Family

So sorry to hear about Ralph's passing, condolences to Ann and family

Helen and Bud Miller, February 10, 2022

Ann and family

We are sorry to read of Ralph's passing. We wish you and the family solace in this time. He was a good man. Over the years we had contacts that will be part of good memories.
Peace be with you.

June and Chuck Wallsten, February 10, 2022

The Gaston Families

Deepest condolences to Billy, Paula, Mrs Gaston and all of your clans.
We may have lost Ralph, but the stories and pride will live on and on!

Andrew Hamilton , February 10, 2022

Gaston Family

We are so very sorry to hear the passing of Mr. Gaston. Thinking of you all during this difficult time.

Shane & Debra Allison, February 10, 2022

Ann and family

When I read Ralph’s obituary, I thought yes that’s him alright. I liked and respected Ralph.
Please accept my condolences. Rest in peace Ralph You have earned it

Cathy Le Clerc , February 10, 2022

Ann & Family

We are so very sorry to hear of Ralph's passing. Our deepest sympathy at this very
difficult time. Treasure all the great memories he leaves behind. RIP Ralph

Raymonde & Al Fong, February 10, 2022

Ann and family

My deepest sympathy on Ralph’s passing.
I am sending my thoughts and prayers to you all!
Rest In Peace Ralph!
Sincerely, Joan Butt

Joan Butt, February 10, 2022

Ann and Family

My sincere sympathy for your losss of Ralph. He will be missed.

June Simpson , February 10, 2022

Gaston Family

So Sorry to see this, and funny …just yesterday was speaking with a KL friend about working at the Edgewood Restaurant when we had our cottage at Kenogami! Remember the Gaston’s , my bosses while there in the 60’s. Lovely couple they were and so friendly and always kind. Cherish your many memories.

Kathy(Helme) Napier, February 10, 2022

Paula

So sorry for your loss
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Love Della

DellaHanchar , February 10, 2022

Ann, Paula and Bill.

We are sorry to hear of Ralph Passing. He was a good friendly person to talk and discuss various topics with - especially sports ! We enjoyed watching and cheering together the sports that our kids and his Paula and Bill participated in.
We sent our condolences. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you all during these difficult times.

Barb and Jack

Jack Lee, February 10, 2022

Ann

So sorry for your loss. I didn't know Ralph well but he was always pleasant and good to see.
Blaine Crawford

Blaine Crawford, February 10, 2022

Ann and family.

Condolences to Ann and family. Ralph was always interesting to chat with as a neighbour at Kenogami. He will be missed. RIP Ralph.

Kathy and John Carhart, February 10, 2022

Ann and family

Elaine and I were saddened to read of Ralph's passing and we extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family members. Ralph and I go back a long way to our Chaput Hughes days and I will always remember his warm, loving way, quick wit and big smile. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. R.I.P. Ralph Gord and Elaine Hamden

Gord and Elaine Hamden, February 10, 2022

Ann and family

My condolences to you all for Ralph’s passing. He was a person who was deeply committed to his family and his community.
He always had a ready smile and an upbeat comment on things that were happening. RIP Ralph.

Margaret McCrank, February 10, 2022

The Gaston family

Going to miss seeing Ralph and his great stories he would tell me when I visited Billy. God bless him and my condolences to the entire family on the loss of such a great person.

David Zivkovic , February 11, 2022

Ann and family

Sorry to hear of Ralph's passing. Thinking of you and sending big hugs

Brenda Piche xo

Brenda Kennedy, February 11, 2022

the Gaston Family

So sorry for your loss, he was a great Swastition

kimberley walker-hausel, February 11, 2022

Gaston family

So sorry so hear of his passing...truly enjoyed the chats whenever we met on the street and that big smile from a big heart...my sympathies to Ann and the family..he will be missed..

Lou Chouinard, February 11, 2022

Ann Gaston & family

My sincerest condolences on the loss of your precious husband and father. You are all in my thoughts at this sad time.

Laura Gagnon, February 11, 2022

Ann and the family

Ralph was genuinely a nice guy..always a pleasure to meet and greet..he will be missed ….RIP

Bob Zidar, February 11, 2022

Ann Gaston

Ann , so sorry to read that Ralph passed away. He was very intelligent and had some good stories to tell.
I remember when he played hockey for the Lyons Juveniles. We will miss seeing Ralph around town.
He was always so friendly and nice.
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Dan MacDonald&Mary Luoma

Mary Luoma, February 12, 2022

Ann, Bill , Paula and Families

We are very sorry to hear the news of Ralph’s passing. He was a great pleasure to know and we always enjoyed his stories and positive approach to life! His involvement in the community will be missed by many . Our deepest condolences — Brian and Gale Hamilton

Brian and Gale Hamilton , February 12, 2022

Ann, Billy and Paula

So sorry to hear of Ralph’s passing
We always remember his cheery greetings when we crossed paths and the numerous stories he always told.
He will be missed by a lot of People
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time
Harmonie and Brian Barkell

H and B Barkell, February 12, 2022

Ann, Bill, Paula and family

Thinking of you at this difficult time. Cherish your memories and time you had with Ralph. Take care of each other.

Karen Gamble, February 13, 2022

Ann and family

Deepest sympathies on the loss of Ralph. Cherish those memories.

Hélène and Don Studholme, February 14, 2022

Dear Ann and Family:

Sincerest condolences to you at this time of change... I know how much Ralph will be missed. His was such a large and infectious presence. He will be sorely missed by many. He had such a wonderful way of uplifting others and helping them enjoy the moment. And even at his worst he always managed to smile, share an interesting story and make one feel acknowledge. May his memory be a Blessing...

Gordon Stonehouse, February 16, 2022

Ann Gaston & Family

So very sorry for your loss. Heartfelt condolences to all.

SHIRLEY DORSEY, February 16, 2022

Ann & Family

Ralph stepped in and took over a business training program conducting it with enthusiasm and success. I always enjoyed meeting and talking to Ralph on visits to Kirkland Lake. He'll be missed in the home town.

Paul Filteau, February 17, 2022